Comments on: who do you have to sleep with to score an invite to one of the exclusive bashes? http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/who-do-you-have-to-sleep-with-to-score-an-invite-to-one-of-the-exclusive-bashes/ Speed Dating in Toronto Tue, 18 Nov 2008 22:55:46 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Suzie hearts Toronto http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/who-do-you-have-to-sleep-with-to-score-an-invite-to-one-of-the-exclusive-bashes/#comment-14 Suzie hearts Toronto Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:51:43 +0000 http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-14 Wow, I HOPE so. I've always found the men loving lesbians thing kind of creepy. I mean, I get somewhat gooey inside seeing men hold hands, but that is TOTALLY different. In my head, there's a movie trailer going, "In a world where their love dare not speak its name..." and at the end of the movie, love conquers all and they defy societal pressure to be able to express their love out in the open. That's me being a closet romantic, to sum up, rather than a sexual voyeur gawking at two people who just aren't interested in me. Plus, young women who are just learning how to deal with their sexuality often make out with each other just for attention. Which totally ruins it for the real lesbians out there! Buuut... I have to think that as long as men are into threesomes (so, forever), the sight of two girls together are going to be a turn on. Wow, I HOPE so. I’ve always found the men loving lesbians thing kind of creepy. I mean, I get somewhat gooey inside seeing men hold hands, but that is TOTALLY different. In my head, there’s a movie trailer going, “In a world where their love dare not speak its name…” and at the end of the movie, love conquers all and they defy societal pressure to be able to express their love out in the open.

That’s me being a closet romantic, to sum up, rather than a sexual voyeur gawking at two people who just aren’t interested in me. Plus, young women who are just learning how to deal with their sexuality often make out with each other just for attention. Which totally ruins it for the real lesbians out there!

Buuut… I have to think that as long as men are into threesomes (so, forever), the sight of two girls together are going to be a turn on.

]]> By: Dan Van Beek http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/who-do-you-have-to-sleep-with-to-score-an-invite-to-one-of-the-exclusive-bashes/#comment-12 Dan Van Beek Fri, 12 Sep 2008 17:02:12 +0000 http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-12 Hey there Suze, Coincidentally I was at the same party, but I was up on the roof patio. Idunno, Boy George? Kinda creeps me out. Saw D.B. though, good times! As a single, young and elegible FastLife event host i've been plunged into the same dating world as yourself. Thought i'd share an experience from a couple of months ago: I dated a lesbian. She had never gone hetero, but we got along and she expressed her interest. I wonder your thoughts on this Suze. She wasn't quite Bi, but more like 1/3rd hetero but we had a strong mental connection. It went on for about a month, but she never really got used to having a wang in the mix. Also she would hit on or flirt with girls around me. I later learned she thought I would be cool/excited to see that happen, but although we were not exclusive, to me its still not much different from her hitting on other guys. Long story short it was a bit weird and we broke it off. I'm wondering, do you think that as lesbians become more accepted and commonplace and less taboo, guys will lose interest in the idea of watching girls kiss? I mean, what does it really do for us? Like maybe 20 years from now two girls kissing in a bar will be more 'get a room' and less 'someone get a camera!' Hey there Suze,

Coincidentally I was at the same party, but I was up on the roof patio. Idunno, Boy George? Kinda creeps me out. Saw D.B. though, good times!

As a single, young and elegible FastLife event host i’ve been plunged into the same dating world as yourself. Thought i’d share an experience from a couple of months ago:

I dated a lesbian. She had never gone hetero, but we got along and she expressed her interest. I wonder your thoughts on this Suze. She wasn’t quite Bi, but more like 1/3rd hetero but we had a strong mental connection. It went on for about a month, but she never really got used to having a wang in the mix. Also she would hit on or flirt with girls around me. I later learned she thought I would be cool/excited to see that happen, but although we were not exclusive, to me its still not much different from her hitting on other guys.

Long story short it was a bit weird and we broke it off. I’m wondering, do you think that as lesbians become more accepted and commonplace and less taboo, guys will lose interest in the idea of watching girls kiss? I mean, what does it really do for us? Like maybe 20 years from now two girls kissing in a bar will be more ‘get a room’ and less ’someone get a camera!’

]]> By: Antonia Siemaszko http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/who-do-you-have-to-sleep-with-to-score-an-invite-to-one-of-the-exclusive-bashes/#comment-10 Antonia Siemaszko Tue, 09 Sep 2008 23:24:30 +0000 http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-10 Suzie, okay, I'm laughing at your nyah, nyah. Lucky woman, seriously lucky. Too bad you didn't get to meet him though, he seems truly nice. But I agree with Charlotte, I'd have completely died and gone to heaven if I'd met him. I think he's awesome. The Cutting Edge rocked, I loved him in Jericho, and he's going to be doing Crash on Starz this season. I think he's still too handsome for words, in fact more now, than then. He tended to a slight bit of "cute" when he was younger (circa Cutting Edge.) He's grown into his looks now. Wow. For all the jokes he makes about what the DB stands for I will always think he's Damned Beautiful. Suzie, okay, I’m laughing at your nyah, nyah. Lucky woman, seriously lucky. Too bad you didn’t get to meet him though, he seems truly nice.

But I agree with Charlotte, I’d have completely died and gone to heaven if I’d met him. I think he’s awesome. The Cutting Edge rocked, I loved him in Jericho, and he’s going to be doing Crash on Starz this season.

I think he’s still too handsome for words, in fact more now, than then. He tended to a slight bit of “cute” when he was younger (circa Cutting Edge.) He’s grown into his looks now. Wow. For all the jokes he makes about what the DB stands for I will always think he’s Damned Beautiful.

]]> By: Charlotte http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/who-do-you-have-to-sleep-with-to-score-an-invite-to-one-of-the-exclusive-bashes/#comment-9 Charlotte Tue, 09 Sep 2008 03:24:47 +0000 http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-9 I would have died and gone to heaven if I got to meet D.B. Sweeney. I know he is a little older but check him out in The Cutting Edge. Too handsome for words. He is still a good looking guy and enormously talented. He is the kind of actor who can do many different roles and blends into each one of them. Not famous in a typecasted way so I assume that is why you say he does not have street cred. I would have died and gone to heaven if I got to meet D.B. Sweeney. I know he is a little older but check him out in The Cutting Edge. Too handsome for words. He is still a good looking guy and enormously talented. He is the kind of actor who can do many different roles and blends into each one of them. Not famous in a typecasted way so I assume that is why you say he does not have street cred.

]]> By: Suzie http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/who-do-you-have-to-sleep-with-to-score-an-invite-to-one-of-the-exclusive-bashes/#comment-8 Suzie Tue, 09 Sep 2008 02:05:25 +0000 http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-8 If it makes you feel any better, I probably wasn't ever within ten metres of him. But who am I to try and make people feel better? Nyah nyah, I was totally at a party with D.B. Sweeney! If it makes you feel any better, I probably wasn’t ever within ten metres of him. But who am I to try and make people feel better? Nyah nyah, I was totally at a party with D.B. Sweeney!

]]> By: Antonia Siemaszko http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/who-do-you-have-to-sleep-with-to-score-an-invite-to-one-of-the-exclusive-bashes/#comment-7 Antonia Siemaszko Mon, 08 Sep 2008 18:13:43 +0000 http://speeddatingcanada.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-7 I am extremely, extremely jealous, you were at a party with Mr. Damned Beautiful Sweeney, and I missed this party. I would not only have been impressed (I am impressed.) I am also insanely jealous. I think he's got plenty of street cred, and talent. Hope you enjoy the rest of the festival. And yes I totally agree with you on men with broad shoulders in suits being...addictive. I swoon just thinking of DB in a suit. I am extremely, extremely jealous, you were at a party with Mr. Damned Beautiful Sweeney, and I missed this party. I would not only have been impressed (I am impressed.) I am also insanely jealous. I think he’s got plenty of street cred, and talent. Hope you enjoy the rest of the festival.

And yes I totally agree with you on men with broad shoulders in suits being…addictive. I swoon just thinking of DB in a suit.

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